As the renowned psychologist Rollo May best exclaimed, “Depression is the inability to construct a future.” These last few days I’ve been listening to a lot of lectures and audio tapes from Earl Nightingale. Although throughout my youth I’ve been exposed to this new mentality – I guess I kind of forgot all about it.

See recently I’ve been going through a lot mentally. Overwhelmed from the university life, going through a breakup, and attempting to keep my sanity – I began to lose it. But I needed a little reminder of what life was all about and a sense of focus of what really important to me – my goals, my dreams, my ambitions.

See, here’s something interesting that I’ve noticed: people aren’t like me. In a very subtle and exquisite sense, I’m very unique. Now understand this – I have A LOT of friends, plenty, beyond anyone can ever imagine. I have a very large, strong support network. Close friends – friends who care about me, mentally, physically, spiritually. I would do the same for them.

However, there’s something different that I have begun to find out that differs between the rest of the world and me (and my friends). It’s that we have the ability to dream. And not just dream, but also succeed. See failure is not a problem for me/us. Failure is only a stepping stone – in a way, I actually want to fail at somethings in order to get better. I purposefully set myself to fail so next time I come out stronger. That’s not the case for everyone, some people are deathly afraid of failure.

Speaking of “deathly”, I find this fact rather interesting and quite intriguing: I’m not afraid of death. It dawned on me a few weeks ago and I told my best friend about it. If I were to die today, I would be okay with it. I mean really, I’d be okay with it. At 20 years old, I’ve done everything I’ve wanted to do, everything! I never held back and in the grand scheme of life I gave it my all. All of it. Every single bit of me. Of course, don’t get this wrong, there’s so many more experiences out there that I want to experience (getting married, raising children, becoming wealthy, achieving my ultimate goals), but at 20 years old, I did everything that I’ve wanted to do.

I look at this fact with a sense of fear and interest – I mean really? I look back and reflect, and even though I’ve had many times of down and sadness, I still woke up in the mornings with a sense of enthusiasm and excitement. I did everything I wanted to do in the love of my passion and my entire focus. When I look back, even at my failures, I don’t see regrets, I see learning lessons. I saw opportunity out of what seemed like dead possibilities. I lived my life to the fullest every single day.

Now getting back to the topic of ambition, it is my inability to fear failure that gives me a sense of desire. My desire to be successful and overcome my challenges is much greater than the fear of being a failure and having being controlled by my problems.

I have a passion of facing challenges and achieving them. I find happiness in being able to solve my problems and moving on from one obstacle to the next. I expect the best and prepare for the worst.

My goal in life is to have influenced and changed the world for the better. To give a substantial impact on how medicine operates. To save lives. To better people’s health. See my purpose here on Earth solely one thing: to serve humanity. And I am here to do that and let me tell you something: I will do that.

I guess what separates me from the rest is that I create and I will not conform. Why is it that only a slight percentage of the population is wealthy? They have goals.

You are the driver of your mind, you are the farmer of your farm. You are the conductor of your train.

Websites can become very confusing, especially when you’ve just entered the field. There’s a major difference between a $300 website and a $5,000 website. “Cheap web design” is extremely different than “professional web design.”

What is the importance of a website?

A website is your online representation. It is what the majority of your customers will see before they step through your doors. It is the storefront of your business virtually. Would you rather have a business building that has graffiti on the wall and bashed out windows? Of course not, you’d like the customer to gain a pleasurable experience when entering your vicinity, the same rules apply for the internet world. It is important to realize you wouldn’t go to a doctor if he worked out the back of a van. Prices often reflect quality. Remember: You get what you pay for.

Many ‘cheap web designers’ out there use primitive, simple technologies. They design with no viewer experience or marketing strategies in mind. Many of these ‘cheap web designers’ use predesigned templates. These are universal templates that anyone can purchase and slap on their website. Thus your website will not reflect your business’s core values, and you may be sharing the same design with someone else.

Imagine you hired an architect to design you a customized home. Now imagine three-months later you find the same design on someone else’s property.

The importance about a business is selling, not just getting it out there. If no one knows about your business, or you can’t convince others why they should come to you, then you have no business. A website is a major investment in all businesses, whether it ranges from landscaping to international trading, your site is your business’s representation.

Several things to ask yourself when you do get a ‘cheap website:’

-          Does this reflect my business’s values?

-          Can I call support if I have any questions?

-          How easily can I update this?

-          Is this what I really wanted?

A professional web designer does more than just design sites. Each project, design, website, come with their own specialized, customized content. Professional web design goes under extensive research, preparation, understanding of client wants and needs, proper execution to make sure all objectives are done correctly and effectively, and finally evaluation.

Do you think you get all of this for $300?

School sucks. I admit it, it really sucks. I experienced a lot of “bullshit” through my high school career. I nearly went psycho. I was imprisoned in this horrid penitentiary for four years (high school). I felt my being, my presence, myself having become limited, captive, unable to express my true self or feelings. I was constricted and confined in multiple ways unimaginable. As this gradual concept of prison and confinement thickened and slowly impaired my thought process, I became crazy.

I have to admit, high school was not that bad, the first two years to be precise. My freshman and sophomore years were to be remembered and looked upon. During this period, I learned more about life, and became more aware of myself and others. I began to discover my inner self; my goals, strengths, weaknesses, and abilities. I felt an unloosing of questions and mysteries. I understood the concept of God, religion, love, and society. I was eccentric to go out and observe much more. I felt my brain becoming a sponge, ready to soak up any knowledge and information I can. I met new people, dumb, old, wise, and smart; I became part of large discussion, and experimented on multiple different levels.

I was invincible, I thought. I have unlocked the secret to become a super human; a living being blessed with great knowledge and sense. I became self-aware and started to gradually become self confident and build a great amount of self esteem. I had just discovered a new and inner love and relationship for myself and others. I had just discovered myself, and my inner potentials, and I was ecstatic to show the world what I can accomplish.

I adapted to new strategies and ideas instantly. I learned that impossible is nothing, you’re able to achieve anything you want in your life. With the right mentality, motivation, and desire, you’re able to achieve something that no one else has done before.

I learned that with correct envision, inspiration, dedication, and desire, impossible simply becomes a fragile barrier between you and your goals. I unearthed the concept of goals and dreams. I realized that everyone has dreams, yet few have goals. I gathered upon the idea that “Goals are dreams with a deadline.” I began to study the great works of Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Franklin, Albert Einstein, and many more. By the end of my sophomore year, I dedicated myself to becoming a very knowledgeable and wealthy person.

As my junior year in high school rolled around, I was euphoric to demonstrate my abilities, and be able to converse with others, capable of harvesting their wisdom and assemble an intelligent and innovative way of thinking. As I began to take advantage of my opportunities, I soon became packed with the pressure of modern day society and the stress of attending a top school.

Throughout my junior year I was harassed with immeasurable amounts of busy work and bullshit. I know – everyone goes through this. But enough of it already, I’m not everyone, and if you’re reading this, you’re not like everyone either. I’ve had a vast amount of bullshit and stress piled upon me. I unhurriedly began growing a deep and robust hatred for my school, teachers, and administrators.

It first began with my teachers. Unacceptable behaviors demonstrated by them, myopic views towards the future of students, and had a lone desire to earn their paychecks at the end of the week. And it wasn’t me just feeling this, it was others too.

I began to realize that even though my classmates where physically and physiologically 17, 18 years old, their psychological ages were astonishing much lower. They operated at a immature 13, 14 year old level.

I’m too old to be here, I repeatedly told myself. A handful of others and myself began to operate the level of much older wiser individuals; thinking and behaving as professional and abstract adults.

It was then when it hit me – school is not about learning. Who is going to remember the useless sides of geometry, the unnecessary bio dissections, redundant history dates, instead it was designed to divulge a new way of mentality progression. School had one sole purpose: to expose a new way of thinking. You go to school to learn how to think.

“School is like building a house. If you want to build a
house, you just don’t start from the ground up. You have to stop, and dig six
feet deep and pour the cement in to create the foundation. That’s what school
is, to create the foundation of education and learning. It is your
responsibility to build the house.”

Yet four years is too long for some people. Myself being a living example, I was caged in this detention for months to come. This is 2009 – life is not about going to school anymore to get good grades, to earn a degree, and work at a steady career. That’s not for you – if you’re reading this, you don’t want to live that life. The average Joe wants that, you don’t. You desire more, you requisite wealth and success for living. Ninety-five percent of all Americans are the same, if you’re reading this; you’re the “other” five percent. We strive upon independence and security.

We strive upon independence and security. We push hard in order to obtain independence. No longer will we take orders from others, or have to manage their bullshit.

I have had enough. We need change now. Take action or take disappointment.

Time = Money (substitution)

Girls = Money x Money (simplify)

Girls = Money^2

Money = Squareroot of all Evil (substitution)

Girls = (Squareroot of all Evil)^2 (simplify)

Girls = Evil

Everyone in this world is different

But unfortunately, each and every person is different in his or her way of thought process. Let’s face it – this world is filled with dumbasses. Stupid, idiot, deficient, mindless, unintelligent morons! Unfortunately, these morons are so widespread that we have to encounter them on a daily basis.

These dumbasses are devious, sly, and deceiving. From first glance, intelligent people can’t tell a difference between a moron and a normal person. So we begin to converse as normal human beings to them. Their mouth and eyes moves the same speed as ours. They’ve been able to perfect the perfect dead stare into your eyes. They seem normal – the must be normal, as we think. But as the conversation begins to elevate, we begin to realize otherwise. The wording suddenly becomes corrupt, thoughts are becoming infuse, and we embark into misinterpretation of each other. Understandment slowly declines, and we gradually realize – oh, no – this person is – is – difficult!

I have personally encountered hundreds of these unintelligent beings many times. Sometimes I begin to wonder – does part of their brain not work? Are they really that dumb? Or are they trying to act dumb for attention? Many years of research and experiments have suggested otherwise: people are difficult to be difficult. They are unable to put 2 and 2 together to make 4. Instead they have to choose the alternate route of 3 and 1/2 and 1/2. Of course one can only begin to imagine how frustrating it must be to deal with these bastards. 

Instead of trying to deal with these nincompoops (Yes! That’s a real word), I’ve composed of several different ways to avoid them. 

1. Simply ignore – if you begin to realize this person is difficult – immediately start to cut off all connection and other ties to this person. It’s that simple. It saves you countless hours of frustration and having to go back and correct their errors. Trying to ignore and staying away from difficult people really helps, it also helps reduce your aggressive levels.

2. Don’t get too aggressive - when dealing with a difficult person, it may be very frustrating. But remind yourself – it’s hard for these people to understand. The concept you may trying to communicate might be simple and rapid, but difficult people must analyze the idea from every single perspective. Getting too aggressive and using excessive rage only leads to bad public relations, which only leads to more frustration and headaches. Keep your cool, and go through it. There are people in this world whom only friends are difficult people.

Who am I?

My name is Armin Tadayyon. I am the CEO and founder of Tadayyon Company. Currently, Tadayyon Company is operating in Chicago, Illinois. I have started this company for several reasons: my love for business, helping others succeed, and rising to the top.

I used to be the sole owner and operator for another company called Ezoba.